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Author Topic: breakdoown in communication (Read 43 times)
Martin Brofman
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Re: breakdoown in communication
« Result #1 Yesterday at 11:26am »
Sending him love and healing rather than rejection is sure to have some positive effect.

Have a wonderful and loving holiday.
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Re: breakdoown in communication
« Result #2 Yesterday at 9:55am »
THANK YOU. I THINK I NEED TO LET GO OF NEGATIVE THOUGHT PATTERNS. IT IS NOT EASY TO COMMUNICATE VERBALLY WITH HIM, AT LEAST NOT NOW. I'LL TRY COMMUNICATING THROUGH REIKI BY REACHING OUT TO HIS HEART CHAKRA.
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Re: breakdoown in communication
« Result #3 Yesterday at 9:29am »
He is not hurting you - it's you who have been hurting yourself with the thoughts and emotions you have chosen in response to your situation.

Karma is not cosmic blackmail - you still have to do what makes you happy and stop doing what makes you unhappy.

If you see him as hurt and in pain, see what you as a healer can do to help him.

Open the communication and see what happens.
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Re: breakdoown in communication
« Result #4 Yesterday at 8:57am »
THERE SEEMS TO BE SOME KARMIC CONNECTION WITH HIM AS WE HAVE SIMILAR KARMAS. I TOO DID NOT HAVE A HAPPY CHILDHOOD. MORE THAN LOVE ITS EMPATHY FOR MY MAN THATS NOT MAKING ME LEAVE HIM. AND AS A HEALER MYSELF I REALISE HE IS HURTING ME BECUASE HE HIMSELF IS HURT AND IN PAIN.
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« Result #5 Yesterday at 8:53am »
WE ARE STILLTOGETHER COZ IN AN INDIAN SOCIETY SURVIVING IN AS A SINGLE WOMAN REQUIRE AMPLE GUTS AND MAY BE I LACK THE COURAGE. ALSO DEEP DOWN I HAVE A FEELING THAT IF HE IS SUCH AN UNCARING HUSBAND WOULD HE BE A LOVING FATHER. I THINK SOMEWHERE MY HUSBAND HAS CLOSED HIS EMOTIONS OR BLOCKED THEM DUE TO A TRAUMATIC CHILDHOOD AND A BROKEN HOME.
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Re: breakdoown in communication
« Result #6 Yesterday at 8:30am »
Perhaps he is happy in the movie with no children. If that is very different from what you want, you can ask yourself why you are still together.

Since at this point you have nothing to lose, I would suggest that you insist on sitting down together to have a real communication about where you are and where you are going.

Also - just to look into your own consciousness - being in a "loveless marriage" is something that can easily be seen as a reason you can give yourself to not have children. Of course, we can say that he might have the same good reason, living with a wife who is "bitter and withdrawn," as you have described it.

Communication is, for me, an essential ingredient for harmony in a relationship.
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Re: How did I create this?
« Result #7 Yesterday at 8:22am »
In terms of how you created it, I would wonder whether you have been asking the Universe for a partner. If so, you now need to be more specific.

Order up what you want - take what you get - and work on the difference. Fine tuning.

Accept that you have ordered up a partner (if you have), thank the Universe for the delivery, and then let it go, keeping your eyes open for the new delivery.

Sounds like solar plexus stuff at this point with the woman. For her, she is in a relationship with you, as long as you continue to engage her, and this struggle could be seen by her as transpersonal sex.

There is a metaphysical principle that says, "What you resist, persists." Choose to stop resisting, because the reality by agreement that you have been in has been a control trip. You have been deciding what she should do, and she has been deciding for herself what she wants to do. If you stop being angry, you will stop feeding her energy, and you can be in a clear space yourself, sending her a metaphysical gift from the Universe - a partner who enjoys the struggle with her as much as she does. Since it is what she really wants, she will be more likely to agree to that reality, and by resolving her problem, yours will be solved.
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« Result #8 Yesterday at 8:18am »
I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 8 YEARS. I FEEL THAT MINE IS A LOVELESS MARRIAGE. MY HUSBAND IS RULED BY HIS MOODS. DUE TO AN INFERTILITY PROBLEM WITH MY HUSBAND WE ARE CHILDLESS. AND MY HUSBAND SIMPLY DOESN'T WANT TO GET ANY MEDICAL TESTS DONE. THE MATTER HAS SIMPLY BEEN PUSHED UNDER THE CARPET. NO ONE TALKS ABOUT IT. BUT IN MY SUBCONSCIOUS IT IS ALWAYS THERE CAUSING A WHOLE LOT OF BITTERNESS IN ME WHICH GETS MISDIRECTED INTO ANGER AND WITHDRAWL FROM MY HUSBAND. WE BOTH END UP GOING INTO OUR SHELLS AND THE HOUSE BECOMES AN ISLAND OF SILENCE. I MIGHT BE ABLE TO ACCEPT MY KARMA IF AFTER THE TESTS WE ARE TOLD THAT WE CANNOT HAVE A CHILD BUT MY HUSBAND HAVING GIVEN UP WITHOUT A FIGHT IS WHAT I HOLD AGAINST HIM. I AM SIMPLY NOT ABLE TO FORGIVE HIM. AND WHEN I SEE HIM SPENDING TIME WITH HIS FRIENDS AND CHILLING OUT I FEEL ALL THE MORE SAD THAT HE HAS ALL THE TIME IN THE WORLD FOR EVERYTHING ELSE BUT NOT TO GETSOME SIMPLE FERTILITY TESTS. HE SIMPLY REFUSES TO ACKNOWLEDGE OR SEE THE EMOTIONAL VOID IN MY LIFE. MY JOB IS SIMPLY NOT ENOUGH TO KEEP THE FEELING OF LONELINESS AWAY.
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How did I create this?
« Result #9 on Dec 22, 2009, 3:15pm »
Hello everyone. I've read Martin's book - Anything Can Be Healed, (which I loved) and Martin maintains, that everything in our world is created by our consciousness and if we want something to shift - we need a concomitant shift in our consciousness before we will see results. Well, I created something which completely baffles me - and I am at a loss as to what in my consciousness created this, and more importantly, how I can resolve the situation. I am being stalked by a crazy woman. She is a stranger who is obsessed with me. She is a lesbian - I am not. I've told her to stay away - I've done the traditional things - filing police reports, etc. but this woman will not cease and desist. Since this is not a physical ailment, I'm not sure which chakras to focus on. Initially, I was frightened - but now I'm enraged by this woman. Do I visualize the third chakra being healed. Also Martin stated in the book, that if one person says, "no" you do not have an agreement. I am vehemently saying no to this person being in my life, and yet she still follows me everywhere, photographs me, etc. Thank you in advance for any insight you might give me.
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Re: The eye gazing exercise
« Result #10 on Dec 22, 2009, 12:09am »
Hi Juliushouse, Queen 8 and Martin,

These eye meditations are fascinating.

There is a Japanese healing technique in Reiki, called Gyoshi-Ho.

Two people sit a few feet apart, one with their eyes closed, being the receiver, the other with their eyes open, being the healer.

The healer sends the Reiki to the other, through their eyes, focusing on the receivers face.

You can of course use the White Light for this, it is really amazing what you can see and experience.

Very fascinating and powerful way of healing!

Lizzy
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