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Post by andrew on Jun 9, 2006 11:30:28 GMT 1
This was an excellent dialogue.
I need this kind of thing.
I wonder what happened to Gary?
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Post by Gary on Jul 24, 2006 5:13:43 GMT 1
Hey guys, Hi Martin
Gary is back.
It's been a great eight months and I intend to gt my eyes examined within the next two weeks to find out where I am at.
Something has popped at work a few times over the last two months and I would like to know your thoughts on it Martin. When speaking to the other two managers I work with, I went through a phase when it was very hard to stay centered and focused when looking at them straight in the eyes, at a very close physical distance. It was almost if my eyes had minds of their own and wanted to look off in another direction. I'm not sure this even makes sense.
It is gone now, but it only happened with those two guys. Maybe it had something to do with not wanting to lie to either of them about "the business", and, how I really want to get out of it. Is this obvious?
Peace,
Gary
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Post by Martin Brofman on Jul 24, 2006 6:41:00 GMT 1
When people are sensitive about looking into someone else's eyes, it is usually because they do not want the other person to look into theirs, and see what is going on in their consciousness. It would seem then that your insight is correct - that you didn't want them to "see" that you wanted to leave.
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Post by Gary on Aug 4, 2006 3:39:33 GMT 1
Thanks Martin.
I went and got my eyes examined today by an optometrist and I would like to share the results. Here is what she wrote for an Rx : DISTANCE OD - 325 - (SPH. CYL) OS - PL - 075 x 175 ( SPH. CYL AXIS)
ADD OD +200 OS +200
Could you tell me what this means? I also went in with an old pair of glasses that I had from about four years ago that were with reduced prescription lenses. Those measured out to be Left + .25 Right - 1.25.
I did not purchase any glasses and I did not intend to. I know I now have a reference point from which to measure further success. Do those first set of numbers make sense?
I don't know why I waited so long to have them checked. I must admit I did feel a little fear as I sat down for he examination. I also felt like I was giving some of my power away to this doctor.
If one dos not know where to go in life, "wasn't clear", would that affect one's vision?
Here's to clarity!
Gary
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Post by Martin Brofman on Aug 4, 2006 8:00:15 GMT 1
I am not familiar with what the numbers mean, Gary. You would have to ask an optician or eye doctor.
I would say that the fear has something to do with the state of your eyesight, and if you have your eyes examined on a day when you are feeling good, I would not be surprised if you get better numbers.
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Post by andrew on Aug 5, 2006 0:26:54 GMT 1
Gary
Maybe i can help here?
I have been reading prescriptions in what i regard as a scientific manner for a few years now. Via that reading it is then possible to get insights into the consciousness that maintains the vision problem using the kinds of ideas that Martin is discussing.
So if you just consider this to be a complete guess you can then take it or leave it as you want to do:-)
I believe the issue for you is related to that conversation you were having with the managers. Ie what do you want to do and how best to achieve that? And importantly doing what you want to do in a manner that allows life to be more of a win win situation for you and for others.
So at times the important issue for you is not only considering what you want to do (which is something you do need to begin emphasising but which might seem hard and a bit intimidating), but also seeing that others are not necessarily against what you want, but are rather wanting to influence you or guide you in a way that might help you if you could be open to seeing that. So i am wondering if because of some past person who may have been critical of you that has impacted your "feel good factor", you tend to react to what others say to you as if you are being attacked or manipulated? The solution is to see that you are free already to do what you want to do, but see also that what another wants you to do may be good for you too. So at each "meeting" or experience, if you revaluate what you want to do based on the new information you can then *flexibly* consider possibilities, rather than dig in or resist.
Does this seem like a possibility for you?
Andrew
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Post by Gary on Aug 5, 2006 6:46:55 GMT 1
Thanks Andrew. Let me digest that.
Martin,
Here is my prescription:
Left -.75 Right -3.25
A little difference in each eye.
How often should I get them examined?
Thanks, Gary
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Post by Martin Brofman on Aug 5, 2006 6:53:44 GMT 1
When someone is going through the improvement process, they should leave their glasses off when they do not need them to do what they are doing. If you need them for something, put them on for that, and after, take them off again. If when putting them on they feel uncomfortable for your eyes, it's time to get your eyes examined to see the degree of improvement.
Last scene in the movie - get a new driver's license that says you do not need glasses.
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Post by Gary on Sept 24, 2006 6:24:52 GMT 1
Martin, Here is a new one. Do you remember how I said strong emotions surfaced for awhile as I started in on the exercises? Well I had a new one today. Jealousy. But it was super power jealousy. I like this girl at work and she was sitting down on her break having dinner with this other guy and these feelings came up, after the event, that were, for lack of a better word, "insane." It's been three hours now and they have just subsided. I kinda think she likes this guy also, and maybe she was "playing me" a little bit, I'm not sure. It was probably all innocent.
But I have not felt emotions of jealousy that intense in all my life and I'm sure its because of the work I'm doing. More stuff to be released. I really, really, really would love to not go through another experience like that. The weird thing is that I haven;t even gone out with this girl.
Martin, do you have any words of wisdom on anything that could help; thoughts on jealousy, certain chakras to work on? I know that there is fear behind it. And I know that if I act, or say anything to either the girl or the guy, coming from that jealous space, it would be a disaster. What do I need clarity on?
Thank you.
Gary
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Post by Martin Brofman on Sept 24, 2006 8:57:08 GMT 1
You can consider control issues - deciding what other people should do, rather than what you should do.
Check out a super book - the Handbook To Higher Consciousness, by Ken Keyes. I think it will talk to you quite loudly.
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Post by Gary on Sept 24, 2006 10:41:47 GMT 1
I have that one. I haven't read it for a long time.
He talks about preferences as opposed to addictions.
I'll dust that one off.
Right on target as usual.
Thanks Martin.
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Post by Gary on Mar 5, 2007 5:29:01 GMT 1
Hi Martin, Getting a great handle on jealousy. It has taken awhile , but I have eliminated about 80% of it.
For me, realizing that it was about control, and fear helped me tremendously.
Separate Question.
What is the consciousness behind a "lazy" or "wandering" eye - where sometimes a person favors one eye over the other?
And what idea would you use in consciousness to heal it?
Thanks.
Gary
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Post by Martin Brofman on Mar 5, 2007 7:28:30 GMT 1
If the eyes are not working together, the male eye and the female eye are not communicating. Which male and which female are not communicating, in terms of what was happening in the person's life when the symptom began
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Post by Gary on Mar 5, 2007 15:30:08 GMT 1
So if his parents were not communicating at the time the symptoms began, would he go back to that time, in consciousness, and imagine they were communicating.
Or, to borrow a technique from your book ANYTHING CAN BE HEALED, imagine the left and right sides of the brain are working as one?
Thanks
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Post by Martin Brofman on Mar 5, 2007 19:22:50 GMT 1
It would be to understand the relationship between what was happening between the parents, and the developement of the symptom - and then to see the effect that has had on the person's life - and then to heal it one way or another. There are different methods and techniques. We do something called brain balancing, that could work for the person to correct the symptom. The person would imagine the two sodes of their brain working together as a team, and focus on male - female communication in their life, watching the improvement, as well as the release of symptoms on the physical level.
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