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Post by Martin Brofman on Apr 8, 2008 15:09:38 GMT 1
When the eye crosses inwards, we understand it as the person looking inside to see what they might have done wrong, or feeling responsible / guilty about something.
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Post by Martin Brofman on Apr 10, 2008 15:27:37 GMT 1
I would say that something happened when you were young - perhaps going to Daddy for some attention when he was in the middle of some unpleasant activity (taxes, for example) and finding him angry - and thinking it must have been something you did.
Anyway, you can certainly change the perception, and just know that you are loved. And appreciated.
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Post by spiritgirl on Apr 10, 2008 17:48:16 GMT 1
I think its easier, at least for me, to go back to see how the original perception may have been formed. Then its easier to recognize and dissolve. For a very long time, I also have also had this perception of having done something wrong and feeling guilty but not knowing what that specific wrong thing is! I finally traced it back to this: the adults around me would very frequently have negative emotions like anger, irritability, impatience towards something that I did, which did not happen to please them. A lot of it was very trivial stuff. So I linked my "actions" and my self worth to their negative emotion. But now I realize that this was their way of interacting with kids (me) - it had little to do with me! That their anger or other negative emotions said more about them and their personality than specifically about me and what I did. And when I decided to "SEE" for myself other people with kids I was amazed. I could see that, in the same exact situation, where my parents and the other relatives would have gotten angry and threatening with me, other parents would handle the same exact situation in a totally and frequently wonderful way!! Without blaming the kid and thinking of the kid as a non human being. I have seen parents handle situations with kids beautifully where in the same exact situation I would be thinking that my parents would have "killed" me  So now I can see that I did not do anything wrong - but it was just the reaction of others that I considered a reflection of myself. I can let go of this perception. SG |
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Post by Martin Brofman on Apr 15, 2008 9:59:59 GMT 1
Now you can make a different decision.
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Post by Martin Brofman on Jun 20, 2008 6:07:19 GMT 1
Interesting that you saw your father's energy as "malignant" when he was there to show you how to use the right code to turn off the alarm. He was there to help you. You chose to see him as malignant, and deserting the two girls in the street.
Seems like it is your view of him that needs to change. That would be the dark glasses that need to come off.
...and you would fight by using enzymes?
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Post by Martin Brofman on Jun 21, 2008 8:03:18 GMT 1
You did well.
Now I am wondering about the progress with your view of your father. WEe welcome your comments about this.
All in good time, of course. No rush.
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Post by Martin Brofman on Jun 22, 2008 6:26:26 GMT 1
Yes, you cn embrace your demons.
Anyway, sounds like you are processing in a good way, and moving more from control to acceptance and love.
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Post by Martin Brofman on Jun 23, 2008 6:38:18 GMT 1
What about, "Abundance is mine - now."
Then, look forward to seeing the evidence that it is true.
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Post by Martin Brofman on Jun 23, 2008 12:27:17 GMT 1
Rather than seeing yourself as malignant, see why you have given that label to your father and what that means. What characteristics are those you have described as malignant, and then see if that label still applies.
Then you can also see if the characteristics you have described also apply to you, or not.
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Post by Martin Brofman on Jun 24, 2008 13:13:29 GMT 1
...and what I see is that it is not the qualities you have described that are malignant, though they may not be characteristics that one may be proud of - it is your REACTION to these characteristics that has been the problem.
Take responsibility for that, and the process of blame disappears.
You are not a weed, but just a flower who has been in the wrong garden.
Time to find your garden.
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Post by Martin Brofman on Jun 27, 2008 8:33:45 GMT 1
When the eye looks in, it's like you are asking yourself, "what did I do?" A bit like feeling guilty about something without really knowing what it is.
No need to be hungry for the love, when it is all around you. Just notice it and allow yourself to let it in.
You are doing really well with your Dad, I would say.
You can see that your father loves you and wants you to be well. You will feel easier and easier about feeling the connection with him.
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Post by Martin Brofman on Jun 28, 2008 7:05:39 GMT 1
Accept who your father is. Acceptance comes from the heart chakra.
Release mis-perceptions. After all, they are only perceptions, and do not necessarily show you what is real. Communication can help you understand which perceptions are real and which are distortions.
Changing mis-perceptions is an aspect of clarity.
Your dad getting angry is a reality. Escaping inside and refusing to see that doesn't change anything nor resolve anything. You can understand instead why he got angry. Is it an expression of love, or the reaction to his perception that he is not loved?
Malignant means life-threatening. Yes there are malignant things in the world, and what you need to do is to focus your attention on what is organic - life-supporting. Is your dad life-threatening or life-supporting? Was your REACTION to him life-threatening or life-supporting?
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Post by Martin Brofman on Jun 28, 2008 11:51:52 GMT 1
Long story.
Anyway, it is about your perceptions, and personally, I do not know if that reflects truth or if it is just your subjective "reality." I do not really work with these past life stories in the healings I do. I prefer to focus on what is happening in this lifetime, before it becomes another past life we have to deal with in the next life.
With what you are describing, I would describe your past relationship as perhaps "toxic," but not as "malignant," unless his actions were overtly life-threatening. Again, it was your reaction to what he was doing that was the problem, since you chose to continue in that relationship for some time. That's what you have to take responsibility for, and recognize that it was simply a combination of energies that were not good for you to be with - so that you can stop continuing to psychically attack him by calling him "malignant."
If you want to look further into the past life stuff, you should see someone whi is an expert in that realm. Search on Google for that in your area.
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Post by Martin Brofman on Jun 29, 2008 7:23:00 GMT 1
Yes - and the question is about what kind of man you attract. The old way of thinking reinforces the idea that it is a disadvantage to be a woman. You chose to come into this life as a woman, to do something, or heal something.
The reality of it is that there is a wide spectrum of people out there - male and female - and you need to adjust your consciousness so that the ones you attract are those honoring and respecting life, and humanity, and womanhood. In turn, you can choose to also respect life, and humanity, and men. Honor them as you would like to be honored by them. Mutual respect.
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Post by Martin Brofman on Jun 30, 2008 10:44:07 GMT 1
Yes - that could work very well.
Personally, I choose to work on developing in myself more and more a sense of acceptance, compassion, and love, and adding that to the world pool of consciousness. The more there is of love, acceptance, and understanding, the less there will be of the other polarity.
Healing has many forms.
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