Cancer of the Eye

[lizzy]

6 months ago I intuitively wanted to send my Dad the BMI book, Anything Can Be Healed. But when I went to pick it from my bookshelf, I took The Vision Improvement one instead.

I haven't seen my Dad for some years, not for want of trying, but gave up as he was/is not open to a relationship.I didn't trust my intuition so did not send the book.

Last week I found out through my Aunt, that my Dad has Eye cancer. (Hence picking the book). He has undergone the treatment, but has ovbiously been in much suffering.

So I plucked up the courage to ring him. He was very cold, as usual, but I felt ok with this. We talked about healing, and he says he has been healing it every day. I told him about the book, but he said he didn't want it. Thats perfectly fine, but I didn't say what I wanted to say, that how did he feel about the idea that Cancer begins in the consciousness, but I didn't.

I am still feeling that i want to say that to him, because it might help him, but have this fear still. I don't have anything to loose as in a relationship, so i don't really know what the problem is.

I don't have any problem talking about these concepts to other people so it must be about something else.

Any comments would be helpful. and how I can best help him.

Lizzy
xxx

[Martin Brofman]

Could be that you sense his resistance to the ideas.

Anyway, it would be interesting to find out what was happening in his life when the symptom began - some difficult separation from someone, for example...

[lizzy]

Hi Martin,

Thankyou.

Yes maybe my fear is handling communication regarding his resistance and also making sure that I am not trying to impose on his ideas.

He believes that healing comes from God, that is fine, but has never asked himself how we manifest illness in the first place. Might be that he does know, but would not want to have a conversation about it.

The lump appeared in the eye 5 years ago, but cancer was only discovered 4 months ago.

I think I shall just keep in contact with my Aunt to see how he is doing and keep visualising him becoming well, happy and at peace.

Thank very much.
Lizzy

[barbie]

Hi Lizzy -

Send the book and say what you have to say in a letter. Let him decide what he wants to do with both. Do it and don't expect anything.

This way you are at peace. It seems that you want to tell him things but somehow you are not able to. Suppression might give you an ailment of some sorts in the end and that would be a shame. Don't let your father's situation be the beginning of a condition for you.

I had a similar situation. Did what I wanted to do and then left it at that... didn't even expect a thank you. But I was happy and thought if he wanted more, he will reach out and he did. Time resolved the whole issue.

Love
Barbie