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Post by Giovanni on Aug 22, 2006 5:01:50 GMT 1
I'm improving your vision with your method, dear Martin. I read in "anything can be healed that nearsightedness is related to tension in the root chackra. You say that to release that tension one should open to the love of his mother. The fact is that I hate my mother because she would like to separate me from my wife and I love my wife. what's your suggestion. Thanks
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Post by Martin Brofman on Aug 23, 2006 8:04:27 GMT 1
Can you see what she does as an expression of her love, and doing what she feels is right for you?
You might not agree with her - and you might resent her for her attacks on your partner - but that is the way she expresses her love, and while you do not have to appreciate the way she expresses her love, you can still acknowledge the love that is behind the expression, knowing that you are loved, and therefore not have to place yourself in a situation where you feel you have to make a choice between your wife and your mother. In fact, you can be open to the love from both of them, even if they do not get along. In that way, you maintain a certain neutrality that allows you to perhaps act as a mediator, seeing both points of view.
You can also express to your mother that you do not appreciate her attacks on your wife, but you can continue to remain connected to her - especially when you see that the tension in your consciousness about her has resulted in you having a symptom. To release the symptom, you need to release the tension.
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Post by Bellamia on Aug 30, 2006 1:47:38 GMT 1
Martin: How can "attacks on a partner " be an expression of Love?  ? Behind that sort of "expression" I would suspect jealousy, fear, resentment..all sorts of unloving thoughts., possibly rooted in feelings of insecurity. I also have in mind, this is just one side of a common story............ How did it come about that this is such a tense relationship? And is this really what the "problem" is for Giovanni? Just some thoughts. Namaste, Bella |
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Post by lizzy on Aug 30, 2006 9:38:21 GMT 1
HI Giovanni,
Sounds like your Mother loves you so much that she is insecure about your relationship with your wife.
This is about boundaries, helping your mum to love you in a way that does not cause divsion and does not lead her into negativity harming her own self.
Do you spend time with your Mother? Find something to do that you would both enjoy.
A Mother has so much love, helping to bring you into the world to experience your precious life, sharing her body to do that.
When I came off the healing course I never realised that my Mother had so much love for me, particularily at the point of conception. This was a powerful realisation.
Meditating on "the Mother" in general, may help you begin to feel differently and be able to give and receive this love.
Lizzy.
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Post by Martin Brofman on Sept 5, 2006 9:00:40 GMT 1
She might feel that this relationship is not good for you, or not healthy for you...
...and in that way it is an expression of her love for you.
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