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Post by spiritgirl on Apr 23, 2008 23:04:15 GMT 1
HI Maiwa Yes - you can definitely do it! Like Martin says - Anything can be Healed. I am wishing the same for myself too  SG |
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Post by Martin Brofman on Apr 24, 2008 6:14:17 GMT 1
Not only possible, but that it is happening. Now.
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Post by Martin Brofman on Jul 28, 2008 20:25:25 GMT 1
You might have to see the approval and appreciation in the eyes of others, instead of the judgement you had been afraid of. Time to stop hiding and let yourself be visible - now.
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Post by somethingtosay on Jul 29, 2008 0:07:12 GMT 1
maiwa -- this might sound insensitive but I don't mean it that way. Your complete lack of self worth is not something that can be helped by anyone outside yourself. You feel afraid to stand out and own who you are, afraid to be attractive, afraid to succeed. Guilt from your childhood plagues you, when you were considered the cute one. This all has to go. Let it go. Then you can start coming from a sense of who you really are, as opposed to who you thought you should be, in order to remain hidden. You can do it, but it has to be you who do it. No outside approval will trigger this for you. Wishing you the best.
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Post by Martin Brofman on Jul 29, 2008 9:27:05 GMT 1
Maiwa, you will have to change your mind about "I don´t know how to react if I get attention, I still want to hide and disappear. It feels like a burden as well. Something I have to give back once I receive it" as part of your vision improvement project.
Make a different desicion, create a different belief, and then look fdorward to seeing the evidence that this new belief is, in fact, true.
Positive feedback is good.
It's really nice to be appreciated.
People love me for who I really am.
etc.
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Post by Martin Brofman on Jul 29, 2008 10:30:30 GMT 1
Good for you for standing up for yourself. That shows courage and indeed, belief in yourself and who you are.
How does it feel for you now to have this positive feedback?
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Post by Martin Brofman on Jul 29, 2008 17:47:42 GMT 1
Great.
"somethingtosay" has good intentions, but anyway, even if what he had to say got to some of your buttons, he did also stimulate in you a response in which you re-affirmed your power to stand up for yourself, and we can thank him for that.
...and now it is no longer true that "It hurts to imagine to get approval and appreciation."
You now know how to cope with it.
Healing has many forms.
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Post by somethingtosay on Jul 29, 2008 21:27:06 GMT 1
Yes, I did and I do have good intentions. Thanks for acknowledging that, I appreciate it.
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Post by Martin Brofman on Jul 30, 2008 15:03:02 GMT 1
Not sure if the translation is a good one, since I do not understand what you are asking.
If you are nearsighted, you are hiding something inside, probably because of fear of being judged.
If you are going to make a list of everything you are uncomforatble with, you might as well just handle them all.
If you are in Germany, you can also consider coming to a vision imp;rovement weekend there.
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Post by Martin Brofman on Jul 30, 2008 16:10:40 GMT 1
Whatever you might be uncomfortable with, resolve it, whether or not it has something to do with your eyesight. You'll feel better, and shouldn't that be motivation enough?
If you have attended several weekend classes before, you can repeat them at a reduced price, or for free.
...and yes, simply let go of the resistance.
...and it's not about wearing glasses or not - it's about having clear eyesight or not.
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