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Post by Angeleyes on Aug 23, 2008 11:39:41 GMT 1
Thanks Martin, I understand now. Alice
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Post by Angeleyes on Aug 28, 2008 16:36:31 GMT 1
Martin wrote "You can decide to no longer have fear as a motivating force in your life, and to no longer make decisions based on fear.
"I am afraid, therefore I decide to...." is no longer good enough." On reading this post Martin, I know that you are right. Yet I have to admit that I have done nothing, I have been allowing myself to be afraid of the actions l know I need to take. I know I can not continue like this, yet I feel great fear of taking any decisions or actions. I have been looking outside of myself for answers and someone else to fix things for me but I know it is only I who can do this. I don't know how to turn things round to make decisions based on love. I even stopped doing the eye exercises and "Do nothing" exercise because it was making me more painfully aware of what was wrong in my life, what needed to change. Yet I can't get back to that unawareness I had before I started the program. How do I move forward? Alice
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Post by Martin Brofman on Aug 28, 2008 17:00:22 GMT 1
When you get tired of sitting on the fence, you will do something.
It's up to you.
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Post by Angeleyes on Aug 29, 2008 10:57:00 GMT 1
You are right, thank you.
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Post by Angeleyes on Sept 24, 2008 11:06:42 GMT 1
Hello, I was reading over this post as I am attending the Vision Course this weekend with Annick. I have come so far already. I feel I am a different person from the one who was posting on here. Now she seems to have been feeling so sorry for herself. And had given up her power to do anything. I, however, have cleaned up my life. I've decluttered my home, all 9 rooms of it, and then decluttered it again! it's now so light I feel I could fold it up and put it in a suitcase. I take a lot more action on the things I can change and have developed a faith that by the time I get round to them the things I can't change will have started to change themselves anyway, so what i'll be dealing with will be easier. I have overcome my fear/terror of travelling without my husband so that I can attend the Vision Course and I have also changed the belief that I used to have that the whole course would be a terrible ordeal to believing that it will be a really enjoyable experience. I am enjoying the excitement of travelling to a new country in a few days time and preparing for it. When I get nervous or anxious I remind myself of the parts I'm looking forward to and that I have always had a safe journey where everything flowed. I have attracted more money into my life, and more support and am now working on relaxing more as I have tended to tense my body so much over the years that I have been doing it automatically even though there was nothing for me to be tense about. I started to focus on what I could change or do to make things better for myself and a whole lot of things just fell into place. Thank you, Alice
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