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Post by spiritgirl on Feb 27, 2013 13:58:18 GMT 1
Hello Martin
My husband, who is right-handed, is feeling some pain in the muscles around his right eye and there is a slight blurriness. He says he feels it more in the evenings.
What would this mean according to the BMS?
Thanks
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Post by Martin Brofman on Feb 28, 2013 7:42:44 GMT 1
We can see it as the Will Eye or the Male Eye.
Of we interpret it as the Will Eye, we would see it as him not seeing clearly what he wants. Something in his life is different from what he wants.
If we see it as his Male Eye, we would understand it as him not seeing the male in his life - whatever that might mean for him - or not seeing himself as the male.
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Post by spiritgirl on Feb 28, 2013 14:36:25 GMT 1
Thanks Martin.
So this should be seen in conjunction with what was happening at the time it happened - right? At the time it started - he was actually on the computer, doing lots of detailed work on Photoshop - his hobby is photography.
Also with work - he works in the mental health field - and there have been coding and documentation changes - he has to write much more for every patient he sees.
p.s. Martin - he just told me that it hurts when he is doing detailed work, on the PC or when painting in detail.
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Post by Martin Brofman on Mar 1, 2013 10:08:14 GMT 1
> So this should be seen in conjunction with what was happening at the time it happened.
Not just in that moment, though that does give a clue - rather, what was happening in his life at that time.
If it hurts when he is doing detailed work, and if the symptom is allowed to intensify, he would not be able to do the detailed work on the photography that he loves. He would be keeping himself from doing the photography work. Brings up questions of how he feels about his "work" - since in that area he now has to write much more, and we would ask how he feels about that.
Would he really prefer to leave the "straight job" and support himself with what until now has just been his hobby, and has he been keeping himself from seeing that?
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Post by spiritgirl on Mar 1, 2013 14:46:38 GMT 1
Yes - he would prefer to pursue his hobbies fulltime, but he hasn't made a dime from that! On the other hand, he finds his paid job rewarding on the whole and likes the lifestyle the money brings. He has plenty of time to pursue his hobbies since we have no kids and not a hectic social life ;D Speaking of social life - he says he feels lonely here - wants to move back to India, where he can retire immediately - he has enough money for that - and do what he wants and he also feels more socially connected as well. But I do NOT want to live in India. He would have to move there by himself. So he has reconciled to living here in the U.S. with me. What can he do to reverse this disorder? What emotions does he need to release?
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Post by Martin Brofman on Mar 1, 2013 15:11:13 GMT 1
Well, again, if we see it as his Will Eye, he has been having difficulties letting himself see what he really wants to do - and if he has enough money to retire, there should be no problem about him pursuing his hobbies full time.
It's interesting that it is you who are asking what it is that he needs to do differently, and not he who is asking about what is going on in his own consciousness.
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Post by spiritgirl on Mar 1, 2013 15:29:24 GMT 1
I'm anxious about his problem. He's going to the Doctor next week. He's had surgery on this eye several years ago. I explained to him what you've said here - he was interested and says that you have given him some good pointers. Also if he is unhappy I want to talk to him about it.... coupled with the knowledge you have given me He has enough money to retire in India but not here in the U.S. So ... I guess he just has to really look at what he really wants to do.
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Post by Martin Brofman on Mar 1, 2013 17:00:14 GMT 1
Yes.
Please let us know how this resolves (If you like).
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Post by spiritgirl on Mar 2, 2013 4:18:50 GMT 1
Dear Martin I certainly will .... and in the meantime I am encouraging him to do what he wants and what makes him happy! I'm so in love with your teachings, BMS system ... its the only way I can think now that makes sense to me. No dissonance whatsoever. Thank you from the bottom of my heart And Thank you for caring so much.
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Post by spiritgirl on Mar 6, 2013 14:22:39 GMT 1
HI Martin
Good News! The opthamologist told my husband that there is nothing wrong with his right eye!! Phew ;D But there may be a potential problem brewing in his left eye. But my husband says he is seeing very clearly from the left eye - there is no pain or blurriness. So he just has to go for a checkup in 6 months time. If the pain/blurriness was in his left eye (he's right-handed) what would that have indicated according to BMS?
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Post by Martin Brofman on Mar 12, 2013 17:50:29 GMT 1
Dealing with some stuff emotionally - or possibly something about seeing the female. Could be emotional results of the discussions you have been having - but anyway, good to know that he got clear in his consciousness about the right eye stuff.
Interesting stuff, this healing and the body mind interface.
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Post by spiritgirl on Mar 13, 2013 22:09:03 GMT 1
Thank you Martin for your feedback! I really appreciate it. Releasing all the tensions (with your help of course is helping my eyes too - they feel much more relaxed lately even though I'm using the computer a lot! We're both focusing on staying happy and releasing tension
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