Seeing and being seen

[queen8]

Is there a connection between seeing and being seen? I'm trying to work out my need to be SEEN (with love and/or affection) and wonder if this is connected to my nearsightedness. Being seen is in my case related to crown chakra, as I don't feel lonely if I feel someone sees me in a good way.

[lovemusic]

queen8 said:

my need to be SEEN (with love and/or affection) and wonder if this is connected to my nearsightedness. Being seen is in my case related to crown chakra, as I don't feel lonely if I feel someone sees me in a good way.

I'm sure it is related to heart chakra aswell...
I can somehow resonate with this as, during meditation, I have sometimes seen pink in my red chakra and now I know this means I need love to be clearly expressed to me in order for me to feel secure. (I know this is rather "indirect" and I'm not quite sure what the connection might be between seeing and being seen).

XXX

[Martin Brofman]

Nearsightedness is related to the solar plexus chakra, and being okay just being who you are, and feeling comfortable with being seen.

[queen8]

I'm laughing now, as I see there is a message for me in what's been happening at the message board now, twice: I ask a question, Lovemusic adds another question, and Martin answers his question and not mine (the threads "Together with myself" and "1-month old baby..."). Lovemusic even said : "Ok, I'm going to stand in the line for astrological answers". So I don't feel I have a competitor, it's just that "the authority" (?) doesn't SEE me, the needs or question of others is more "up in the day". Or put in other words: I ask and ask, but I don't get the attention of the "authority".

I hope you don't mind me "using" you, Martin and Lovemusic! I'm sure this example has an equivalent in other relationships in my life... How do I turn this around, what do I do to allow myself to get the feedback I really want from "the authority", how do I make myself visible?

Another thing that happened yesterday, was that I bumped into something with my car's right back wheel, which was a repetition of something that has happened before (and I have a problem with my right side, as it's shorter, more withdrawn than the other side). What is it I don't get? This connection make me think it may not only be about an "authority", but a question of will or a male (a male authority?) My own guess is that I'm striving to get the authority to see what I want.

And, Martin, could you please answer my question about virgos in the thread about the 1month old baby, as I put in the other question there, too? Thank you!

;)Queen8

[Angeleyes]

Hello Queen8,
I was reading this post and thought I'd add what I've seen. I see that Martin has answered your post. If I look at your questions and Martin's answers, I see that he has covered everything, just maybe in a different way to what you might have expected. I see that Lovemusic gave his perception of seeing and being seen and didn't ask a question. Yet Martins post also seemed like a guide to Lovemusic.
I read Martins post as a guide to you and all who read it, including me.
You asked "Is there a connection between seeing and being seen?......Being seen is in my case related to crown chakra, "
Martin wrote
"Nearsightedness is related to the solar plexus chakra, and being okay just being who you are, and feeling comfortable with being seen. "
Thanks for posting this as it helped me see a lot! I discovered that my need to be seen is stressful and just being who I am and feeling comfortable with being seen is relaxing and takes a lot less effort!

[queen8]

Alice,
I didn't say Martin didn't answer my question in THIS thread, as yes, I agree, his answer here was an answer also to my question! I was talking about the two other threads where this happened, where e.g. I asked about Virgos and Lovemusic asked about Scorpios, and Martin answered the Scorpioquestion and not the virgoquestion. I chose to post my observation here, though, as it's a related theme!

Now I'm just wondering if you're "helping me" covering my question again... (I really find this funny, though it's serious at the same time)

[Angeleyes]

Hi Queen,
You know I was writing that post when I stopped and asked myself why I was writing it. I considered deleting it and then thought that I could try allowing myself to say what I see as I usually don't do that.
I see now what you mean.

"Now I'm just wondering if you're "helping me" covering my question again... (I really find this funny, though it's serious at the same time)"
I hadn't read the other messages on the message board until after I had posted earlier, so didn't realise you were talking about another post. Interestingly I am a virgo also so maybe I was unknowingly helping us both. Boy, is this gonna be some answer when Martin gets it posted!
Alice

[Martin Brofman]

Hi, Queen8,

>I bumped into something with my car's right back wheel, which was a repetition of something that has happened before (and I have a problem with my right side, as it's shorter, more withdrawn than the other side). What is it I don't get?

Sounds like your Will side is bumping into things. Do you feel you have to exercise (assert) your will? If you do, perhaps you have been over-doing it, or perhaps it needs to be done in another way.

I had not answered your question on the other thread because I did not really understand what you were asking. Anyway, it is answered now, according to how I understood your question.

[queen8]

THANK YOU!

Earlier today I wrote to a friend that "I'm making all the questions from the "wrong" place, forcing them, instead of relaxing and just let the goals and questions "flow" from abundance. I'm looking forward to that flow!"
So yes, you're right, I've felt I had to assert my will. Now I understand what it's about, and I've started to change it. step by step I'll arrive to where my prayers/questions again are answered almost before they are asked/uttered!