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Post by Angeleyes on Jan 21, 2008 13:30:41 GMT 1
I have discovered in working on improving my vision and my life that a very important issue for me is boundarys. If I put up with less than I expect from a relationship, friendship or in a professional capacity then it escalates. The resulting tension and feeling of being wronged or having done wrong when not checked when it first occurs has in the past had a tendency to backfire on me. So as part of improving my eyesight it is important for me to be me and not feel pressurised me into doing things anothers' way and if I feel that their behaviour is not what I expect, it makes life easier if I say now instead of letting it escalate. Has anyone else dicovered this? In the past I didn't say when I was unhappy with anothers' behaviour and the issues had a tendency to blow up out of all proportion. My reason being that I didn't want to hurt them or our relationship. Now I see that not saying allowed bigger tensions and caused more harm to the friendship. Working on improving my vision is certainly making things a lot clearer. Thank you Martin for sharing your vision improvement story with us. Alice
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Post by Martin Brofman on Jan 29, 2008 13:48:11 GMT 1
Yes - it's about owning your power and acknowledging what is true for you.
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